Rather, it was understood that married partners would grow to love one another.Other factors in weighing marriage decisions were generally considered to be more significant.Mountains have been built and eroded, continents and oceans have moved great distances, and the Earth has fluctuated from being extremely cold and almost completely covered with ice to being very warm and ice-free.These changes typically occur so slowly that they are barely detectable over the span of a human life, yet even at this instant, the Earth's surface is moving and changing.In modern America, recreational dating is taken to be a positive good, like food, air, and sunshine, a necessary, inescapable activity.It is considered to be a normal and natural part of growing up - what could be more wholesomely American than taking a girl to the prom?They would present the evidence of her virginity to the elders of the city (Deuteronomy ).But if the charge was true, and the woman was not a virgin, then the bride was to be executed in front of her father's house.
And Daddy should worry, because the modern dating system expects a certain amount of physical involvement.
Virginity was an inheritance to be brought into a marriage, and the father of the bride was responsible to preserve that inheritance.
If a new husband slandered his bride and claimed that she was not a virgin, the bride's father and mother would defend her name and the name of their family.
The dichotomy is this: in dating, we presume to partake of many of these privileges of marriage.
We would be shocked if a married man had an emotional attachment to another woman, and yet it's quite acceptable for singles to have a different emotional attachment every week.