Thereafter, the more questions you answer, the more likelihood the OKC algorithm will find you a match.What this means is, with not much thought, you can fairly easily sculpt your profile to find, for example, a gay eugenics pipe smoker.”) to the exceptionally weird (“What are your opinions on Eugenics? The questions are picked at random from a list of tens of thousands.You have to answer 50 to begin with, so the site can build a picture of what you are.As few people actually bother deleting their profile, part of the torment of using OKC is wondering whether the person you've messaged is ignoring you or simply met a lovely bloke six months ago.Mind you, it’s not all bad – there are plenty of lovely women on there, and the site has a huge success rate in matching partners.
Since it's not all about the kinky and the dirty, Fluffchat offers a safe for work chat experience.The other reason all these people are on OKC is, of course, that the site is free to join. Well, yes, in my experience of online dating, free is very definitely bad.And it's here where you encounter the second major drawback. Free sites are packed full with spammers and scammers and people looking for casual sex.I met one woman who was boring, one woman who almost bit my finger off over dessert, and the girlfriend I’m with today.I got what I wanted from the site – although it wasn't always the most comfortable experience. It works, but you have to be willing to sort a lot of wheat from chaff.Telegraph Dating - a place where you can have fun getting to know like-minded people in a safe and secure environment.