After a few weeks of them being here, he invited me to a nice restaurant to meet them.I was so nervous, thinking they would disapprove of me.Dating in Pakistan is a complex game, full of intelligence, politics, lineage evaluation, secretive sub-plots, counter intelligence and a healthy dose of 'if my Daugther isn't back by Isha, God will rain Drone bombs down your backside', .......the added caveat that if God did rain hell fire, that the lady in question would be somehow not be incinerated.....but one can assume that Daddy believes that the drones are supernaturally accurate and doesn't expect the distance between the two to enroach ten solid halal shrapnel reaching feet.I'm aware men are allowed to become polygamous.He agreed and said much of what I said is true, but that I can't stereotype everybody and to please give him a chance since he doesn't fit into any of the stereotypes and assured me all along of how seriously he's taking me.
Hi, I'm very afraid to post my question here due to the responses I might get, but at the same time, I know many of you can give insight that I can't see since I wasn't brought up in the same culture and religion. I'm 26 and have been dating a 34 year old Pakistani man for nearly 2 years.
For example, dating is forbidden in Islam, most men's mothers have the final say in who they end up with and, in fact, want their sons to end up with someone from the same culture or an arranged marriage.
I'm aware many men from the middle East only use white girls, but then dump them for women of their own culture when it's time to marry.
Etiquette dictates that it is always polite to let the lady in question speak, (preferably till she chokes from lack of breath).
In the probable advent the blabbering puts you in a coma, it is useful skill to nod off to sleep whilst keeping your eyes open. Tip: If you'd like to test whether or not she actually likes you, lean back.