I find that very often people who end up having a sexual relationship are simply doing whatever they think needs to be done to hold on to their bf/gf.
If I can feel wanted, even if it’s in a sexual way, I like it, but yet on the other hand, I don’t.
Either he doesn’t know what love is, or he’s lying about loving her. It is not easy to face the consequences of believing that lie.
If the pressure for sex does not let up, get rid of him or her.
Juli wrote: It is easy to give in and say ‘yes’ but we have to prepare ahead of time so we can say ‘no.’ If you just wait until the moment, you easily cave in. Tell them that it has nothing to do with a lack of feelings, or your level of commitment.
In fact, you like your bf/gf so much you don’t want to ruin a great relationship by having sex.