I.e., the large percentage of Asian women who prefer non-Asian men. I have been married to a Sri Lankan-American immigrant for 20 years.
Haven't they have had plenty of "Asian male friends and interactions"? We met in college and what attracted me to him was his kindness (especially towards children), his sense of humor and his values.
And now with the proliferation of online dating apps and websites, it can be even more daunting.
Just ask yourself, when was the last time you saw an Asian-American male anchor with a white female co-anchor?
Statistically, Asian men rank lowest compared to other men when it comes to receiving matches and messages from women on dating sites.
While there are different theories for the reasoning, the clients I work with all agree with the premise of not being able to fit the hyper-masculine culture perpetuated by Western society.
This should have given you insight into what non-whites experience in the US, but you failed to connect the dots. Let's see, where do the majority of Asians live in America: Seattle, San Fran, NYC, Chicago, and Houston. has its faults, and I'll be the first to criticize white America, but I will not capitulate to "America's so racist! A white male (like yourself) in the US can remain blissfully unaware of racism while living in the US, because you are a member of the dominant majority.
You focus on your own victimization in Japan, but can't can't generalize to the victimization of non-whites in the US. No one in these cities is calling Asians "foreigners" to their face at their place of employment by other colleagues; asking them how much they make and telling them they should not make more than X amount because they're "gaijin." Nor are they walking down the street and being spit on in the face and told to "Go home! I've seen too much, been to too many places, and experienced too many types of people. But when you move to a country where you are no longer the majority, you become the target of racism. But to non-whites in the US, your experiences in Japan are their experiences here.